Letter from William Irving to Jane Wales

Name/Title

Letter from William Irving to Jane Wales

Entry/Object ID

HHV 003.685

Description

Letter from William Irving to Jane Wales family matters, angry that Sarah will not write to her family, expecting a baby;

Subject

Sarah continues to not write to her family, William thinks it is “Abhorrent”, he’s confused as to why and attempting to cajole, threaten, encourage her, “plans” for Sarah in which better to have a mother or sister around, desire to leave Mrs. Leland’s and all the boarders, desire to sleep through winter months like “Rip Van Winkle”, “Brobdignag” [Brobdingnag?], Mesmer, possible visit to Boston next summer “depending on circumstances”

Subject Person/Organization

William Irving (1811-1854), Jane Wales (?-?), Sarah Mann Irving (1824-1913), Mary Mann

Subject Place

* Untyped Subject Place

Boston, MA, New York

Collection

Irving Manuscript Collection

Letter Details

Letter Date

Feb 28, 1845

Transcription

Transcription

New York February 28th 1845 My dear Sister Your Kind letter of 16th Inst. addressed / to Sarah was duly received, and ever since I have been / flattering myself that she would gladly avail herself of so / opportune an opening for retrieving her past neglect of her / good Mother and Sisters, yet I fear ere I am again to / be disappointed and perhaps for the first time made to / feel that my wife is not all the good being for which / I have been giving her credit. There is , in Sarah’s not / writing, something so unnatural _ so abhorrent to my / ideas of the nature of an attachment that a child _ / more especially a daughter, should have for a mother, / that I can scarce realise it when I think that it / is my own wife who is the one I am complaining of. / I have used argument _ persuasion and even threatened / to keep myself away from her in the evenings until a / late bed hour to induce her to write, but thus far to / no purpose. This last threat I must put in practice / and see if it will not be of some avail; for she / has apparently more dread of my absenting my self / [END OF PAGE 1] From home than any thing else. If I scold, she has / found that in the next moment I have forgotten my / intention of playing the angered husband: and now / she seems to think my threats of staying out is mere / moonshine from the fact of my never yet having been / away from her of an evening so late as ten o’clock. I shall give her to next Monday, when if the letter is / not written, I shall commence and will not come home / after dinner ‘till twelve O’clock at night so long as she / may be disposed to play the incorrigible. It is not, / as I have before said, from a want of affection or / interest in her family that she is thus negligent, but it / arises from a natural dislike to letter writing, originating, I think, / in a diffidence of her powers for composition, and also a / want of firmnefs and decision in availing herself of the / time being, and quiting her conscience with a [mirrored?] / resolve to write at an early day, which day never comes. We have as yet no settled plans for the summer, / We have some plans, which if accomplished, will enable / Mary to be with Sarah which I very much wish, as Sarah / will shortly want some one with her, when a Mother or / a Sister would be more acceptable to her, as well as more / in consonance with my own [^ feelings] than any other person. If these plans fail I shall find myself in somewhat [END OF PAGE 2] Of a quandary: the very thought of remaining under the / same roof with Mrs L. together with such a houseful / of boarders, makes me shudder; and rather than this I / will try and find some quiet place in the country in / the neighborhood of the city, even though it be among / strangers. As to our visit to Boston the coming Summer it / must depend upon circumstances; yet I cannot see / any reason why Sarah should not make you a visit / and perhaps I, myself, may be able to make a flying trip / if for no other purpose than to make the personal / acquaintance of my new cou-[??]-s, at the same time / gratifying the curiosity of those who may wish to see / what kind of a personage Sarah’s new York / Husband my be. The weather has been most delightful for better than a / week – more like the latter days of May than Feb’y – indeed / I am almost persuaded that I have had a touch of the / wondrous sleeping propensities of Rip Van Winkle of / yore, and that I must have snoozed away the usually / disagreeable days of Feb’y, March, + April and that it truly / is the veritable month of May. Who Knows but that / some “Brobdignag” of a Mesmerizer has been playing / his pranks upon the good people of this planet and / [END OF PAGE 3] Putting all mankind into a Mesmeric sleep from which / they have just awakened, and that in truth it is now really / summer and not Winter? Don’t get frightened at what I have been saying / in regard to inducing Sarah to write and fancy that I am / about to act unkindly to her, This, I do not think is in my / [BOTTOM OF PAGE 4] Nature any more than that I would stay away from her as / I have said, she Knows what I have written and perhaps / the fear of my putting in practice what I have threatened / my induce her to write. In haste, Yours aff William Irving [END OF PAGE 4] [ADDRESS] Mrs George Wakes 67 Temple Street Boston [POSTMARK 1 - red ink, oval] FORWARDED BY Hale & SONS [??] NEW YORK [?] [POSTMARK 2 - red ink, rectangle] [faint - illegible]

Transcriber

Kathryn Alexander

Language

English

Other Names and Numbers

Other Numbers

Number Type

Former Number

Other Number

W 3340

Condition

Notes

Remarks: Small holes at fold lines on first and third pages of writing; surface dirt and staining.

Relationships

Related Person or Organization

Person or Organization

Jane Wales (?-?)

Notes

Recipient

General Notes

Note Type

StorageNote

Note

Home Location: Historic Hudson Valley, Union Church, Storage, Shelf 31C

Note Type

Department

Note

Library