Coming Out: Parshat Toldot 2015 November 13

Name/Title

Coming Out: Parshat Toldot 2015 November 13

Entry/Object ID

rdi-2015.11.13

Scope and Content

The sermon explores the tension between hiding who we are and the deep human desire to be truly known. Beginning with a childhood story about a boy embarrassed to reveal his teddy bear, it turns to Jacob’s deception of Isaac, focusing on the Hebrew word oolai (“perhaps”) as a possible expression not only of fear but of Jacob’s secret hope that his father will discover his true identity. The sermon contrasts destructive doubt with healthy questioning and emphasizes the teaching that truth is God’s defining quality. Jacob’s eventual journey toward honesty becomes a metaphor for the courage required to stop disguising ourselves, risk rejection, and “bloom” into our authentic selves. Written in honor of Abby Stein's transition.

Category

Shabbat sermons

Archive Details

Creator

Ingber, David

Primary Language

English, Hebrew

Archive Items Details

Subjects

Jacob (Biblical patriarch), Esau (Biblical figure), Isaac (Biblical patriarch), Blessings, Truth, Parshat Toldot, 12-step programs, Amalek, Talmud, True Colors

Relationships

Related Person or Organization

Person or Organization

Stein, Abby, 1991-, Lauper, Cyndi, 1953-

Web Links and URLs

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Copyright

Copyright Details

© 2026 David Ingber. Non-commercial use permitted, with attribution. All other rights reserved.