In this sermon on Shabbat Chazon, just before Tisha B'Av, Rabbi Ingber plays with the word Eichah (how?) and it's connection to the work Ayekah (where are you?). Whereas eichah demands a reason for suffering, ayekah asks for honesty about where you are -- as God asked Adam when he was hiding in the garden. Ayekah shows us a mirror and it's up to us to be brave enough to look into it and answer truthfully.