Letter: Willard Seiberling to Irene Seiberling Harrison

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Letter: Willard Seiberling to Irene Seiberling Harrison

Entry/Object ID

A 2025.16.b1.f5.2

Description

Letterhead is Princeton University and handwritten in black ink. The writer opens the letter acknowledging the reader's long letter and being ashamed they are just answering it now. The writer explains the first few weeks of college being unsettled, with so many things to do before getting into a routine but should be running smoother later that week so the writer can make out a schedule. The writer mentions one thing on their schedule is one hour daily of reading and shares the various books planned. The writer then mentions a trip to New York invited by Uncle Henry, and being delighted to become better acquainted with Kaddy, describing her as a winner with so many mannerisms, and pretty and feminine, who won't be on the marriage market long. The writer then mentions Uncle Henry taking them to Louie Martins for dinner and then and then out after the theater to Bustanoby's. The writer describes the place as too speedy, but Aunt Kit wanted Kaddy to see a little New York "life" to be wiser for it. The writer held their ground having Kaddy see the sin of the world in fast society as unappealing. The writer they think it's good for a fellow to experience it enough to be disgusted with it, but can't understand having a girl with sweet, refined, and sensitive nature sullied by sordid and repulsive sights and experiences. The writer then mentions what the reader said about Fred applies to their last letter too, noting Fred seems cheerful and optimistic about his condition since his breakdown. The writer mentions Fred having determination in building up his health, even if Papa is not in sympathy with. The writer mentions Papa thinks all is necessary is for Fred to find something in business to hold his attention and energy to grow in body again. The writer closes the letter wanting to remember the talk they and the reader are going to have that they missed on the writer's 21st birthday but will remind of it at Christmas time. The writer signs the letter " With lots of love, your brother Willard." The writer adds a P.S. asking if the reader wants duplicates of house party pictures.

Subject Person/Organization

Seiberling, Willard Penfield, Harrison, Irene Seiberling, Seiberling, John Frederick, Firey, Katherine Seiberling

Collection

PERMANENT COLLECTION

Cataloged By

Katrina Neff

Acquisition

Accession

A 2025.16

Source or Donor

Unknown

Acquisition Method

Found

Letter Details

Letter Date

Oct 9, 1913

Sender

Name

Willard Seiberling

Address

Princeton University 2 S. Dod Hall

Addressee

Name

Irene Seiberling

Primary Language

English

Transcription

Transcription

Thurs, Oct 9th [1913] Dear Irene,--- After your fine long letter, I feel ashamed to be just answering it now—I’ve only written two letters home since I left—but these first weeks of college are always so unsettled and there are always so many things to do before one gets into the routine of the new year, that I’m not surprised I’ve neglected my correspondence. But by the end of this week things ought to be running pretty smoothly; all my preceptorials [sic] and class hours will be definitely fixed, so I can make out my schedule of time for the first term and start off the week with a clean sheet. One thing that goes down on my schedule is one hour daily for reading. Sunday I’m going to start “Les Miserables” and hope to finish it by Thanksgiving. Between then and Christmas I ought to be able to read one of Dickens shorter novels and next the 2nd term I’ll start off with Vanity Fair and George Elliot’s Adam Bede. The three books mentioned by title all are masterpieces, and just in themselves would make up a good years reading for me, but if possible I’m going to stick to my hour a day for reading, which will enable me to read lots more than just those three. Our trip to New York on Uncle Henry’s invitation was a dandy, being practically a renewal of the house party. I was especially delighted with the trip because of the opportunity it gave me of becoming better acquainted with Kaddy. She certainly is a winner, and won’t be long on the marriage market, but as to how wisely she’ll choose her husband, I can’t say. I still think she has a good many mannerisms that are affected, but for as pretty and feminine a girl as Kaddy to pass through the age of 17 + 18 without any affectation or self-consciousness would be rather unusual. I hope the deuce Miss Bennett’s won’t get a lot of frivolous, New York Society nonsense into her head. Uncle Henry took us to Louie Martins for supp dinner and to while still at the table the question came up as to where we would go after the theater. With the exception of Kats, we had all seen Chl Chanleys, Churchills, Murrays, and several of the other respectable cafes, so Mandy suggested we go to Bustanoby’s which she had heard so much about. Ab and I were the only ones who had been there—maybe Uncle Henry had been there some years ago—but the time I was there I saw sights that might not have affected Mandy much, but they would have been a horrible shock to innocent little unsophisticated Kaddy. I said “nothing doing on Bustanoby’s” but Mandy poo-hooed [sic] the idea that the place was too speedy, told me on the side that Aunt Kit wanted Kats to see a little N.Y. “life” so that she would be the wiser for it, but I stood my ground, which brought Uncle Henry around to saying we’d go someplace else. Aunt Mame + Aunt Kit would have been willing to take the chance I believe. This idea of putting a girl on her feet, setting her down on rock bottom, making her “wise” as the saying goes, by letting her see, with her own eyes, some of the wit and sin in the world, in fast society, doesn’t appeal to me. I do think it is good for a fellow to bump into the coarse side of the world, know what it is and what it means, and see enough of it so that he is disgusted with it, but why a girl has to have her sweet, refined and sensitive nature sullied by such sordid and repulsive sights and experiences is a thing I can’t understand. What you said about Fred apply’s [sic] to my last letter too. He seemed cheerful and more optomistic [sic] about his condition than ever before since his breakdown. He’s got that determination and bet to direct his whole time and thought toward building up again his health, a plan which Papa, for some unknown reason, is not in sympathy with. Papa thinks that all that is necessary is for Fred to find something in business to hold his whole attention and energy, and that in the the mental exercise and inspiration he will get from his work he will grow sound in body again. I’d like to write more, but mustn’t. Before closing, I’d like to say that I’ll try to remember the [written along left edge of page] talk we are going to have, the one we missed on my 21st birthday, and remind you of Oh it Christmas time. With lots of love Your brother Willard P.S. Do you want duplicates of all the house party pictures, or will my set do for the both of us.

Transcriber

Cindi Roke

Language

English

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SA 87.228abc

Create Date

April 10, 2026

Update Date

June 11, 2026